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From:
Michael Lee
Date:
I’m
about to reveal some of the most powerful communication and conversational
secrets you can use to instantly connect with anyone and be an irresistible
people magnet, courtesy of top communication expert Joshua Uebergang.
So
drop everything you’re doing and pay special attention… because your
relationships, social life, business life and career could very well depend
on the information I’m about to share with you.
I
guarantee that after reading this letter, you will come out a much better
communicator than you were before reading this. Are you ready? Let’s start
with a lesson on criticizing…
Many
people despise criticism; but did you know that criticism is a useful
tool when delivered at the right time, in the right way, because of the
technique’s importance in shaping our behavior and encouraging personal
growth?
The
Ultimate Secret of Giving Criticism
The ultimate secret of giving criticism is being indirect. Dress
up your criticism so the receiver realizes the mistake on
his or her own terms. Camouflage your criticism in a form that makes
people discover what needs to be corrected and how changing their
behavior will benefit themselves.
Do not criticize a person in front of others and do not give ultimatums.
When criticizing, keep your nonverbal expressions to a minimum
or ensure you have positive facial expressions. More specifically,
keep your eyebrows raised, be physically close to the person, direct
your body to face the person, soften your voice, and keep pleasant
facial expressions.
Use padded words. Soften your criticism with words like: I
feel, I think, and maybe. Softening
helps reduce your possible exaggeration of the problem.
On
the other hand, there’s praising. We all love to be praised! But do you
know how to do it properly?
The
Most Powerful Tip To Remember When Giving Praise
The most powerful tip you need to keep in mind when giving praise
is to avoiding praising the person and instead praise a person’s
behavior.
Give emotionally focused praise. We are creatures of emotion. Anything
focused on emotion, instead of logic, will attract more eyes and
attention.
Throughout each day you have the opportunity to praise others.
Use the technique of little recognitions by saying, Well done,
Congratulations, and That was excellent when such praise is
deserved.
However, do not praise everyday even though you have the opportunity
to praise everyday. Excessive consumption of sweet-talk decays the
mind and leads to dependency.
Give specific praise. Avoid vagueness as it is boring, weak, fake,
and gives space for misinterpretation. Use specificness to create
emotion in anything you say. Concise is powerful.
Now
what if you’re having doubts on your ability to communicate or you’re
struggling to achieve that harmonious relationship? Here’s the answer…
Build
Your Identity And Change Yourself
Our identity is who we are. When we fail to change ourselves, the
thing we tried to change is usually in conflict with our identity.
Morals, or other behaviors, that are in conflict with our identity
get avoided because we do not see ourselves as the person who does
such actions.
Build an identity so that you see yourself as the person who does
what you are trying to achieve.
Visualize. Dress in a way that is congruent with the identity.
Stick up pictures related to your goals around your workstation.
Hang around people who have achieved what you want to achieve.
Act as if you are that person you want to be. Also,
do whatever you can to see this future you desire in a way that
is as great as possible. Make this an everyday ritual.
Once you build a strong identity that is congruent with who you
want to become, there will be no doubt just pure certainty
about doing what you once struggled to achieve. There is
no question about doing the task because you will be the person
who does what you once struggled to do. You will just do it.
And
once you’ve built your identity, you’re now more ‘sure’ of yourself and
your ability to communicate with others. But don’t take it too far…
For
instance, there may be some occasions when we want someone to do something.
And some people mistakenly resort to ordering others. But this is a definite
No-No!
Giving
an order shows a lack of confidence in others. Seeing people rebel against
you only makes you lose more confidence in them, which makes you order
and control them even more! So what can we do? Here’s one effective solution…
Use
The BFEQ Technique To Get What You Want
The BFEQ technique is made up of four components. The first three
parts of the technique involve what BFE stands for: behavior,
feeling, and effect. The final part, Q, involves
making a request using a question.
The BFEQ technique can be summarized with the following outline:
When I see/hear [behavior]… I feel [feeling]… because
[effect]…Would you be willing to (or ‘Is it reasonable for
you to’)…[question]?
A complete example is, When I see my family members
hitting each other, I feel distraught because I fear
violence and need to see love. Would you be willing to solve
the reason that makes you fight? Very few people will ever
experience the backlash effect when they hear this persuasive-assertive
statement.
Use visual and auditory comments to help prevent you from passing
judgments, be specific and state an actual feeling of the behavior
while removing judgmental feelings, and express your needs to increase
the chances of getting what you want.
You can put the BFEQ technique on steroids by adding a statement
that expresses how the person will benefit when carrying out your
request.
And
of course, we all want to be people magnets who are well liked (and especially
loved) by others. Here are some general tips to help you be more likeable…
5
Ways To Be A People Magnet
1) By letting people save face, correct themselves, solve the problem
their way, or whatever it maybe, results in people feeling pleasure
towards you and makes you a people magnet.
2) Similarity is one way of influencing a person to your way of
thinking while reducing psychological reactance. Attentive listening
skills to build understanding is just one effective way of gathering
information about the person so you can build similarity. You can
emphasize your similarities to create the illusion the two of you
are similar.
3) You can be interesting by making statements that show you listen.
Statements showing interest makes you interesting.
4) The powerful level of communication that you can have to make
others comfortable around you is about being so comfortable with
yourself, the people you are with, and the situation, that you sedate
people into feeling great.
5) Avoid the most common phrase that is used to deflect a topic
towards another topic for discussion, which is: Speaking
of… As soon as you say those two words, or hear somebody
say them, a trigger will now get flipped in your mind as you are
able to identify the communication barrier of deflecting. Keep a
lookout for that conversation killer and you will drastically improve
your self-awareness and reduce the chances of you deflecting the
conversation.
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Are
you beginning to realize the tremendous impact that effective communication
has in your relationships, career, business and personal life?
I
admit I used to be a very weak communicator and even shake with nervousness
whenever I’m with people. No kidding!
So
I searched and researched extensively for anything that could help me
relate to people, enjoy being with them, feel their love and respect,
and communicate in a way that makes both of us feel like we’re the best
of friends.
One
of the most helpful books I’ve read was ‘Communication Secrets Of Powerful
People.’ It totally changed the way I treat people and the way others
treat me (in a very positive way), and I couldn’t be happier.
I
was so impressed with the information being revealed (and amazed with
my own transformation) that I collaborated with the creator, Joshua Uebergang,
so I can get this communication breakthrough in the hands of as many people
as possible.
Joshua
Uebergang happens to be one of the world’s top experts in communications
and human relations. He has spent over 2 years and approximately 1000
hours to develop this program; and after reading it, you’ll realize it’s
well worth his time and effort.
Fortunately,
he gave me the sole license to spread the word about his masterpiece,
which is fittingly called:
Communication
Secrets Of Powerful People
It
doesn’t matter whether you’re having trouble…
Communication
Secrets of Powerful People will show you how to solve all of your
communication issues and more! It contains 3 sections that addresses the
12 communication barriers…
The
First Section: Judging (Chapters 1-4)
The
judging section contains the first four communication barriers: criticizing,
labeling, diagnosing, and praising. Here are a few techniques you are
going to discover in this section:
The
Second Section: Solving (Chapters 5-9)
The
five solving barriers are ordering, threatening, questioning, moralizing,
and advising. Here’s some of what you’ll learn in this section:
The
Third Section: Avoiding (Chapters 10-12)
The
third section is avoiding, and contains three barriers: reasoning, reassuring,
and deflecting. Here’s what you will uncover in this section…
I
know that’s a lot of information, which will make you change people’s
minds and boost your charisma to build rock-solid relationships.
After
all, it took Joshua over 2 years and approximately 1000 hours to develop
this program, so you can be confident you’ll discover and experience the
results you want by investing in it.
“I
Now Connect More Deeply To Family And Friends…”
“For
my entire life I couldn’t figure out why people I talked to reacted
defensively by not talking to me, changing the subject, or getting
angry over what seemed to be nothing.
After
discovering just the advising communication barrier in ‘The Communication
Secrets of Powerful People’ program, I learned I was triggering
people to shut down or respond angrily to me.
I
now connect more deeply to family and friends because of the
course! I wish I had these communication secrets years ago as
so much of my pain in relationships would’ve evaporated.”
–
Jyry Aalto from Finland
Fortunately
for you, there’s more in the program than what I shared above. I’m not
sure how excited you are about this program, but you’re going to be more
so now with this delicious treat…
My
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Joshua
didn’t create the program just so you can read about how to boost your
charisma, increase your persuasion, improve yourself, and improve your
relationships. He created it so you would discover the how-to and GET
those results.
Because
of this, he made the “Communication Secrets of Powerful People” ebook
practical and created a workbook to get you from learning to being.
Firstly,
there’s a concise summaries of points and skills you need at the end of
each chapter. This guarantees you won’t forget what you read about, so
you can begin getting the results you want from the program. (Unlike other
programs and books where it’s too easy to forget what you read.)
Second
– and this is where rubber meets the road – is that your valuable bonus
is a catalyst that is “injected” into the program to speed up
your results.
Because
this is a program that requires you to work on yourself, this is no magical
formula akin to swallowing a weight loss pill to lose fat. You will get
results only if you follow the communication skills program.
The
workbook is split into three sections: 1) the psychology behind the workbook
and how you will get the most out of the program with the bonus mind-tricks
and techniques, 2) 41 easy-to-follow exercises, and 3) the 30 day communication
secrets journal where you will write down your daily experience with any
of the 12 communication barriers.
Briefly,
in these sections you’ll discover:
“This
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“Thank
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I’ve learned communication all my life (I’m now 63) and this is
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–
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That
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If
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Here’s
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Imagine
the surge of confidence you’d always have if you had just one of these
abilities. You’d get what you want with people and give them what they
want, YOU! This isn’t selfish because people will love you for your charisma,
how you understand them, and thank you for helping them get what they
emotionally want.
I
know this sounds too good to be true, but you know the power of effective
communication in your life. Just one little tip you know, like avoiding
destructive criticism – which you may have already experienced – wins
you friends, improves your relationships, gets people on your side of
thinking more easily, and much more. Just imagine what hundreds of these
tips and secrets in this program can do for your life.
Here’s
what some readers have said about “Communication Secrets Of Powerful
People “…
“Finding
The Ideas Very Revealing…”
“Finding
The Ideas Very Revealing…”
“I’m
steadily reading through Communication Secrets and finding
the ideas very revealing.
I’m
only up to Diagnosing, so still a ways to go yet. All three of
the first communication barriers are important to recognise, as
will be the rest, I suspect. My biggest ah hah, however,
was probably the following:
“Treating
someone the way you would like to be treated is the greatest myth
in relationships. The assumption that others want to be treated
the same as you is a blueprint for relationship failure. You need
to treat others the way they want to be treated.”
This
goes against the conventional wisdom, expressed often as “do unto
others as you would do unto yourself” or something like that.
Great
point. Thanks for checking in.”
Matthew
Young
“I
Will Be Reading The Book And Using The Workbook Throughout The
Rest Of My Life…”
“The
Communication Secrets of Powerful People has come into my life
at a perfect time as I’m dealing with several personal & business
challenges.
What
has stood out for me personally is the discipline of bracketing.
“Understand to be understood” makes perfect sense. Unfortunately
it has been a concept that has been outside of my awareness, until
now!
I’ve
only begun to scratch the surface with what I’m learning and I
can tell that I will be reading the book and using the workbook
throughout the rest of my life.
Thank
you
Michael
Perez
“A
Very Interesting Blend Of Communication, Conflict Resolution And
Personal Growth Material…”
“You’ve
pulled together a very interesting blend of communication, conflict
resolution and personal growth material.”
“Better
Than Any Dale Carnegie Or Robert Greene Book…”
“Rock on
Bro. Thanks Josh.
This program
is better than any Dale Carnegie or Robert Greene book, thank
you.”
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Now
you know the power packed into the complete communication skills program
to amplify your charisma, boost your persuasion skills, and enhance the
quality of your relationships, one question remains:
The
Critical Question: Is This Program The One For You?
This
program may or may not be for you depending on how you meet the criteria
below. Either way, it’s okay. I understand the program is not for everyone.
I
believe everyone will get a lot out of the program – because everyone
communicates, has relationships, and can improve themselves to be a charismatically
persuasive individual. Because of this, you can see if the program is
for you by seeing if it’s NOT for you.
Who
The Program Is NOT For:
1.
Beginners in personal development or communication skills.
Most
communication skills and personal development experts teach the same old,
beginner material. If you don’t already know basic communication skills,
like simple listening skills or how to ask a decent question, the program
may be too advanced for you.
The
program is filled with never-before-seen techniques and advice on communication,
charisma, persuasion, psychology, relationships, and lasting transformation.
This
is a new program that contains all of Joshua’s breakthrough discoveries
from reading, listening, watching, and talking with world-leading experts
in communication and personal development.
Though
the language used in the program is simple and easy to implement, to get
the most out of the program it helps to already know a little about communication
and personal development.
2.
Someone who is satisfied with his or her life and communication.
If
you’re one of the rare individuals satisfied with your ability to easily
make friends, create quality relationships, remain calm in difficult situations,
and influence coworkers and business associates when you want, this program
is not for you.
If
you’re satisfied with what you’ve got, there’s no point changing what’s
working. If you’re reading this, that shows yourself there is something
in your life you’re not satisfied with and you’re searching for a solution.
3.
Someone who doesn’t have an open mind.
I
prefer not to do business with you if you’re such a person. If you’re
resistant to learning new techniques and prefer to stick with what you’ve
got, please go elsewhere because everything you’ll learn is about crafting
you into a better person with PERMANENT change.
Overall:
if you don’t already have basic knowledge of some communication skills…
if you are satisfied with your life and communication… or if you don’t
have an open mind… don’t invest in the program because it’s probably
not the one for you.
If
you aren’t in the three above categories, like most people who would be
reading this, the program is for you.
How
Much Does The ‘Communication Secrets Of Powerful People’ Program Cost?
So
let me ask you this: What if this knowledge helps you get the success
you want with people and yourself?
How
much is it worth to you to improve your communication skills? A thousand
dollars? Ten thousand? Much more? Most
people I know say it’s priceless.
Having
tension from poor communication with coworkers causes mistakes, inefficiency,
and absenteeism. In your family, it could cause divorce, emotional distance,
and fights.
You
saw the cost of poor communication for yourself earlier on. You already
feel the value of the solution to these problems of yours.
Joshua
has spent around 1,000 hours and over 2 years to create this program (along
with the emotional pain, fights with loved ones, and frustration from
misunderstandings).
I
don’t want you to go through the same experience to get the communication
solutions you’re after when I’ve already found them. You wouldn’t mine
for metals and cut down trees all yourself to build a house when experts
have done it for you.
You
will deal with people for the rest of your life. You will deal with yourself
every moment of your life. Make both of these pleasurable. It’s your choice
whether your conversations with people go the way YOU want.
Why
such a low price despite the high value of the materials? Since there’s
no printing and inventory costs (everything’s in downloadable format),
I’m passing on the savings to you. You win, I win, and everybody’s happy!
🙂
“The
Downloads Came Thru Perfectly…”
“The
downloads came thru perfectly. I wanted to say thank you for the
bonus books also. The bonus books themselves are over hundreds
of dollars. We’ll talk again. God bless and again thank you.”
–
George Contreras from Guaynabo, Puerto Rico
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you’re not 100% thrilled or satisfied with your investment (for any reason
or even no reason at all), then I insist you get ALL your money back.
I won’t even ask you why and I certainly won’t get crossed. Plus, you
get to keep everything as my way of saying “THANKS!” for giving
it a try. That’s my personal promise.
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As
I said, if you’re not 100% thrilled with your purchase for any reason,
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I
sincerely believe your life will change tremendously if you learn and
apply the techniques in this program. But I also know how easy it is to
put off making a decision.
That’s
why I set up the dirt cheap price and the 100% money-back guarantee —
to make it entirely risk-free and a complete “no-brainer” for
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Wishing
You The Very Best Of Success,
Michael
LeeCertified
NLP PractitionerHonored Member of the American
University of NLPCertified
Life CoachCertified
HypnotistProfessional CopywriterCo-Author of ‘101 Great Ways
To Improve Your Life, Vol. 3’
P.S.
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all your money back if you’re not satisfied for any reason, or even for
no reason at all. It’s either you get the value of your investment many
times back by applying the powerful techniques in this course, or you
don’t pay anything.
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